Scripture is full of passages that instruct followers of Christ to watch their language. Yet, somehow, many who call themselves Christians still tend to be careless with their words. Let’s reflect on some of these passages.
The place to start is Jesus’ warning: “I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak” (Matthew 12.36 ESV). We are accountable for our “careless” words. Perhaps an example of carelessness is the “spontaneous expressions” that come out of our mouth. Consider how many are careful to avoid using the word “s**t,” yet think nothing of using the word “c**p.” The truth is, these words mean practically the same thing. So what’s the difference in using one or the other? Either one is inappropriate.
Jesus also teaches us: “Anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the Sanhedrin. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell” (Matthew 5.22 TNIV). Both “raca” and “fool” are words that demean or degrade others. These are often said in situations of irritation or anger. “Raca” is Aramaic and has the basic idea of “emptyhead” or “stupid.” The word translated “fool” is from the Greek word that is the root of the English word “moron.” What is important is that Jesus condemns the usage of such language. We often consider the use of such words as “no big deal” but Jesus clearly declares that it is a big deal to him. They are not just manifestations of weakness but grievous sins in the eyes of God.
James raises the important issue: “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be” (3.9–10 TNIV). And Paul instructs us: “You must let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but only what is beneficial for the building up of the one in need, that it may give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4.29 NET).
Watch your language!
—Keith Y. Jainga